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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 11:33 AM
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wrong question

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lol well what does it look like?
The question is what does she look like?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 11:54 AM
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My gf loves my car! Her aunt says it looks like a little frog!
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by ChristieY
When you care about somebody, even just a little bit, you don't dis their hobbies.

I just bought a MINI at the end of August on a whim (traded in a perfectly good tC in excellent working condition). My boyfriend says I'm "obsessed" with my car but he def doesn't disrespect my interest in it. He loves it every time I see another MINI and squeal "Mini!!!" and point.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 01:15 PM
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ChristieY and Minted Rose.

You fit in perfectly here. Most people (including myself) are obsessed, if they weren't before they came her they are now. I had no interest in MINI's until one day about 5 years ago, I told her to start looking at cars hers was dying. She raved about it but complained that it was too small. So I agreed. besides, we weren't in a position to make the change I gave in a few years ago when the Clubman came out but still stayed away. We saw the CM on display in a NJ Mall and should I say the rest is history. I really got it after we went for two test drives, The first one had very little fuel so we went back after my research was done. We take delivery tomorrow. Basically there is hope for all of the non believers.
 

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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by JaysR56
Any time we go out we have to take her car and she doesnt get that some times i just want to drive even if i have no where to go. Am i alone in this sitution?
Other than her ability to control you, tell us what she likes about you?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 01:41 PM
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One thing to add. What do you like about her?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 03:20 PM
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Wow, this thread is still going?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 03:27 PM
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My girlfriend loves my car.


It's my wife that isn't so crazy about it.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 04:45 PM
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ok guys here we are LMAO
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 04:49 PM
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There we go now!!!! Well, she does have assets.....

Is she jealous of your Mini?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 04:54 PM
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haha i think she might be! i know she feels its too small. I traded in my truck for it. and i know she hates the color. also im the type of person that will research and research and well maybe i have gone a little over board being online every chance i get i just love this car lol
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 05:45 PM
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Jay,

Honestly, let it ride (no pun intended) right now. If this relationship grows you might have to move to the Clubman or the Countryman. My wife loved the hardtop but couldn't stay in it. (she felt to confined) we ended up getting the Countryman.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Neitherfanboy
Relationships are all about compromise. She doesn't have to like your car, she just has to let you like it! Best of luck and I hope it all works out!
Well said, and that goes for any relationship/marriage.....COMPROMISE!
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 06:08 PM
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absolutely!!!! No Compromise = Divorce and that can get expensive.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 06:08 PM
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Yep I agree with Neitherfanboy on this one. To all of those who are saying to get rid of her, don't count your chickens before they hatch. You never know, she might eventually warm up to the MINI. I wouldn't make any hasty decisions before talking things out first. You never know what might come home to roost....

 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 06:29 PM
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Many of us stated Jay get rid of his GF,were unaware of the facts presented tonight. Thus we should be vindicated if we offended anyone.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 06:47 PM
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What kind of car would she prefer you drive?
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 07:13 PM
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maybe Jay needs to trade it in for a Clubman or a Countryman but this time compromise on the color. Let her have some input. but only if you are going to stay with her.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by hsautocrosser
What kind of car would she prefer you drive?
She thinks your car is ridiculous, then what does she think of these...




 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by BMUN8IVE
Eff B****es, Get MINI
Quoted for awesesome, haha.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 07:48 PM
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Shes Pretty

your Mini is FUN and will always be there

try to get her to warm up to the car

take her on a windy road and fly around them corners

Works for me every time !!
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 08:07 PM
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Better yet offer that she drives it.
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 08:31 PM
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My wife loves the mini. I think its about time you get a GF that loves what you love. Maybe not everything you love, but a car definitely helps.

If she loved a Nissan Cube, would you love it too? I think they are hideous.. no offense to anyone that loves them, but seriously, i would be trying to convince my wife to get rid of it.. LOL

Originally Posted by JaysR56
My gf thinks my car is ugly and rediculous and hates going anywhere in it. She doesnt get that i am a car guy and its more than a car to me its a hobby. Any time we go out we have to take her car and she doesnt get that some times i just want to drive even if i have no where to go. Am i alone in this sitution? Seriously we have been togather only 5 months and even though shes great most of the time i have seriously thought about giving her the boot over this. Am i wrong? Anyone else in the same boat lol
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by minted-rose
I just bought a MINI at the end of August on a whim (traded in a perfectly good tC in excellent working condition). My boyfriend says I'm "obsessed" with my car but he def doesn't disrespect my interest in it. He loves it every time I see another MINI and squeal "Mini!!!" and point.
No pointing and laughing Minted-Rose...that's just not nice!! Next time wave and S@@ what happens!!
 
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Old Sep 22, 2011 | 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by RJKimbell
No pointing and laughing Minted-Rose...that's just not nice!! Next time wave and S@@ what happens!!

:D I do wave!! I usually get some weird looks but lately, I've been getting waves. I even got a wave from a grandfather-esque male one morning after work.
 
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