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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:14 AM
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Trade her in for a new model....you have only 5 months vested...big whoop.......find another girl that is more in tune with your interset.

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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:21 AM
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I'm pretty lucky that my girlfriend doesn't give me a hard time, and even stays with me/helps me when I'm doing something to my car (modding, washing, etc). She just gets upset when I "brag" about it. Not that I ever blatantly brag about it, but I just love the thing so damn much, it's natural to talk about it a lot. Honestly, though, I think it'd be awesome to have her driving/owning a 6sp MINI. Now THAT would be hot! But for now, it's her VW Golf which is still pretty cool.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:24 AM
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kick her to the curb... lol --- (this coming from a girl)
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:30 AM
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Pics of girl for voting.

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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:31 AM
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Just keep calling her "my chick". She'll probably leave on her own.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:37 AM
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That's a tough one. My wife hated my previous car, a 1966 Baja Bug! She only rode in it when her car was down and forget about working on it with me. But she never pressured my to get rid of it. I had that car for 12 years. When I got the MINI she said she would never buy one for herself but she knew that I liked it.

By the way she had to borrow DAS COOPER once when her Toyota was down and when she got back from work she said "wow that thing is really fast!"

Still not a convert but I know she would not mind driving it again! Get the girlfriend to drive the car, she will understand.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:40 AM
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I am very glad to say that my wife loves the car almost as much as me.

As for your gf, I can understand it to a point (but only to a point). I know when I met my wife, she could have driven any car, even those I hated, and it wouldn't matter at all.

It sounds like there's more going on than meets the eye. If she hates your taste in cars *that* much, I sense much bigger problems with your relationship down the road.

Time to make a change I think (in girlfriends, not cars).
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by boosted_mini
pics of girl for voting.

Thanks
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 10:58 AM
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boot.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by kellen
+1
+2 ;-)
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:07 AM
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Well what does the mini look like... is it hidious?
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:12 AM
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Usually girls like MINIs. If she is ashamed because you drive a "girly car" then ditch her. Or just do like the other guy said and tell her about her purse and shoes being ugly until she ditches you.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:14 AM
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walk up to her somber like your about to put down a dog and say
"it killed me inside to make this decision, (reach for your keys) i choose the car."
lol

in answer to your original question, maybe. my girlfriend loves my car.
 

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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:17 AM
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Place her in the curbside bin and move on. You'll meet a better girl who is mature enough to accept that you love your car.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:28 AM
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Another person's opinions about your car are only another person's opinions.

Your MINI love should not be swayed by what others think.

"This above all else, To Thine Own Self Be True."
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 11:37 AM
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She made fun of my apartment, so I knocked her flat.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 12:11 PM
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You're not alone. My wife and I own both a 2008 MCS and a 2010 Dodge Challenger R/T. I love them both, but my wife took a while (nearly 6 months) to warm up to the Challenger (now she loves it). Some people are not car people, some people have a particular "look" that they like on a car. Me, it's the Mini and the Challenger. Or have you late-60's and early 70's and then before the 50's. Any other year and unless you go "exotic" I don't like them. My wife doesn't like most of the "70's cars." As I read another's comment, if she cannot adjust her likes to what you like, as I'm sure you've done for her, then there's no point in continuing, but if she's willing to try -- genuinely -- then continue. But true love won't separate over something so silly as a car (shhh, don't tell my car I said that).
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 12:26 PM
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OP, here's my take...BTW I am of the Female persuasion, Married 11 1/2yrs. now. I am the one with the "Car Fetish", my Husband was never "into" cars until he met me, now we both have the cars we want. We have agreed to make joint decisions on bigger purchases (oh, except for the Refrigerator that died 4th of July Weekend, he was out of town), I did send him pics. though. The important thing here is, it's only been 5mo. and she is trying to run your life now, imagine what it would be like 5yrs. down the road...DON'T GO THERE!!
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 12:33 PM
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Wow, she sounds really shallow and spoiled. I don't care how good the sex is, it's time to move on for someone who will appreciate you for who you are and what kind of tastes you have.....
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 12:35 PM
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I guess I'm one of the luckier guys. My wife loved my car, gladly took the Justa off my hands so I could get an S, then when she needed a new car would ONLY consider a MINI!
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 01:07 PM
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There are some great posts on here!
Your gf may never get it. Tell her to accept it, get over it, or move on. She doesn't have to love it, she just needs to keep her derogatory comments to herself since it apparently bothers you. Hopefully she will respect your wishes.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 01:25 PM
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as you can see the car is not ugly lol you guys are all awesome i think what bugs me the most is that why i was into volkswagons i would go to shows and cruises it was kind of a way of life. i wanted a mini because a lot of you have do the same stuff and thats what i love about it. what sucks is i have to do it alone so i guess time will tell but my boots are half laced up and im stretching my kicking leg lol
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 01:46 PM
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K its not hidious, Advice = talk to her about how it makes you feel, if she disrespects your emotions on it, find better. always out there.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 02:11 PM
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My ex-gf hated my Mini.
 
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Old Sep 21, 2011 | 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Boosted_Mini
Pics of girl chick for voting.

thanks
Originally Posted by Kellen
+1
Originally Posted by christomapher
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I found a picture of his chick here:



Vote away. Even without pics though, I'd say she's a bad egg.
 
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