I got my MINI S not too long ago... and have been following break in procedure. It was very difficult at times... but I have always since delivery felt the was an egg under my foot.

I let loose ONCE. Turned off DSC and did a bit of a burnout. Had a bud in the car. Didnt do much since I have the performace runflats that came with the 17" webspokes.

My wife and I (of 4 months this past Sunday) are seperating. Starting over. So she says anyway. Long story there. Anyway.... she filled out her application for a short term apartment rental today..... and that just sent me over the edge.

Drove home today. Literally miles after break in. Needed to let loose. Needed to FEEL something.

Jesus does this car haul. What a difference it makes winding her up to 6500 rpm. My GOD. Aphrodite did well. All I have is the Alta. I cant wait to put on the 15% pulley.

The dealer tired to scare me with the "warranty" issue. They want $795 for a 15% pulley install (and would still be included under warranty). Sorry... but buying from Web Motorsports and "borrowing" the tool will be well worth the money.... and I'll have a blast doing it. Not to mention.... should anything go wrong..... looks like a swap back to stock will be an easy afternoon. (Nothing a few beers wouldnt solve)

I thought this car would give my wife and I a new chance.... real shame I'm not going to be (at least right now) sharing it with her.

 

Im sorry to hear about the break up. good luck to your wife and for you,
a new life with your true luv.

 

Doesnt begin to describe it. As awesome as this car is..... its nothing without her to share it with.

At any rate. Not trying to depress here.... so I will push on. What sort of difference should I expect with the 15% pulley? As I said before.... I already have the Alta intake..... and next I plan on the pully. After that.... I plan on the Borla Sport. What should I expect with the pulley? I am sure the pulley will make the biggest difference..... the exhaust being more minor minus the sound. But I'm just trying to get an idea. Thanks in advance for all of the input.

 

Wow, 4 months and already divorcing? Either she didn't really love you or she simply wasn't ready for marriage

Sorry to hear about this mishap. Probably better now than 10-20 years down the road facing such dissapointment.

Move on dude. Too many women in this world, I am sure you'll find a more deserving better half.

 

It's not a divorce "yet". Mind you it would be my second one, and I'm only about to turn 29. I havnt given up.... but damnit this is the hardest thing I've had to deal with.

 

My VW Golf was always there for me when my ex husband wasnt.. thats why i still have the car and he's an ex . things will work out for you in the long run.

Keep your head up and your foot on the gas!

 

Unfortunately a car can't love you back (Its an object after all) but it is nice to have a car that can help you deal with a seemingly bad situation.

Hope it all works out for you my friend.

 

Hey stargate I know there is nothing I can say to help make you feel better but know you have understanding people out here who have been through tough personal experiences as well and sympathize. My only words of advice are to try not to drive when really emotional, it can effect your senses and make you make mistakes you otherwise wouldn't. I hope things work out for you.

 

my car loves me.. and when she's pissed she lets me know too.. lol

Things will be ok... just give it time

 

Back to your question, the pulley will bring the feel of the supercharger much farther down the RPM range. I scared myself the first few minutes with it on as I jumped on the X-way. You'll love it, go get one.

I'm sorry to hear about your challenge also, but don't wanna go there.

 

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Go for it

 

I for one would consider the pulley from the dealer if they are saying they'll still honor the warranty.

 

I agree with gt6. Not all dealers offer this...it's definitely a good idea. And you will LOVE the pulley! The pull, the oomph, the sound....just wonderful! We're here for you in that "other matter." Take care, stargate823.

 

Glad to hear you are enjoying your motoring machine...

Sorry about the breakup though. At least it wasn't 20 years down the road - it's better (believe it or not) to move on now.

Donna

 

Well, look on the bright side... at least you have an awesome car to drive to cheer you up - I'm sure it helps to ease the pain. But yeah, like you said... don't give up... maybe she just wasn't the one. When you find "her", all of what you're going through now will be forgotten.

Besides, a Mini will get lots of nice ladies noticing ya!

 

Well..... as for us starting over..... she means we're supposed to date each other again. We never did that in the beginning. Long story there. We just kinda moved in together. So when she says start over.... she means us..... starting over with each other. I just wish I could belive that thats really what this is all about.

Exactly how in the hell am I supposed to start dating my wife like weve never been together?

 

Hmm... did she give you a reason for this? Maybe she just missed the dating experience and wants to relive her dating days. At least she still wants to be with you... that's a plus! It's better than her just walking out and wanting to date other people! It does sound like a step in the opposite direction... she does know that you can still date and live together, right? Hmm... something sounds a little strange.

 

I must agree sometimes wifes do some stange things. Mine left me 8 months after saying she was leaving. Three weeks after leaving she felt she still wanted me in her life but I would have to move to her in another state like I had offered 9 months back. They are trying at times but we still love them.


Art

 

MINIclo is right: most dealers wouldn't honor the warranty. Make sure you get it in writing!

On the relationship note: my ex-wife and I are still good friends... just weren't meant to be married to each other. We're both dating other people now... happy... life goes on

 

Yeah. I hear you. Thats exactly how me and my FIRST wife are now! I'm only 28..... and married twice facing who knows what now.

 

1) they are all long stories but I have been divorced 3 times and it has been hard each time... i have also had two breakups that felt like divorces.....if it does not work out be glad that there are no children involved and start to move on... time is really the only cure....

2) get angry ... but only for a while and then let it go and forgive her and yourself...grudges are like "you taking the poison and expecting her to die"

3) get someone to talk to for support and perspective

4) get another person or persons with NO objectivity....they are just on your side and stand by you no matter what.... dogs are very good at this.

5) negotiate the price down with the dealer if you can..... an extra 4-5 hundred to preserve the warranty on a new car is well worth it IMO

6) then get the pulley..... best money spent on a Mini after the original purchase IMO.

7) that's enough for now.... if you need some support you can PM old "Spidey" as Bill C said "I feel your pain"

 

Thanks SpiderX. I love the Alta I bought from you.

One day at a time. I supported her when she divorced her husband.... and when she lost her job. I told her tonight that I need to know that I'm not doing "this" for no reason. She said no, and she would tell me if I wasnt. I guess I just have to wait.... and hope. That passenger seat was for her. Somethign is missing right now. I know what it is. But she hasnt realized anything yet I guess.

So now I wait. Hard to do when shes still here. The worst day is yet to come.... when she actually leaves.

 

stargate, get a copy of Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner, read it at least twice, and immediately starting putting the suggestions into practice. The book contains much wisdom and practical advice. Best wishes for your relationship.