does anybody know a reputable place where i could get my bumper trim and fender arches painted to match the paint job? and if so, what's a good estimate? maybe i'm just being paranoid but i just wanna make sure that its done right!

 

Call Scott @ Central Coast Coopers - they can do it.
http://www.centralcoastcoopers.com/

What will probably happen is you will have to buy new trim (non contaminated with any wax) If there is any hint of tire dressing or Armor All on the panel it is really hard to get it out of the plastic. It would involve alot of sanding.

You're probably looking @ $1100.

Best of luck and happy motoring!