R56 So I got in an accident
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So I got in an accident
I was making a left in a 4 way intersection. I was the second car in line to do so. The first car went well before the rest of the cars and I moved up. The guy going straight up front isn't moving or paying attention of anything so I figure he's either letting me go instead of waiting for the huge line of cars or doesn't know it's green.
Eventually I go and all of a sudden the guy just guns it at the front of my car (not the MINI yet). I pull back straight, he does nothing to avoid me and slams right into me.
Legally I'm at fault because he had the right of way and now to avoid losing my license because I'm a new driver I have to pay everything out of pocket...including fixing his POS truck which looked like it had hit something well before it hit me (rust spots where paint has scraped off kinda gave it away)
The one I'm driving now is actually my dad's and has a totally destroyed headlight assembly and header panel, his truck had a small amount of damage to the bumper and fender, which had made the directional light tilt slightly forward which is why he wants it fixed...he doesn't want water to get in there. Water is gonna get in there anyway and it looks like it'll match the rest of his truck.
Anyway, my question is now after I spend the $1000 (Which is a lot of money to someone just graduating from HS) fixing both cars because mine is actually my dad's which I have until I get the MINI, what should I do to cover my ***? The last thing I need is the guy asking me to re-fix his truck or telling me that he dropped his arthritis medication during the accident and wants it replaced. She I just make up something in writing saying like "I ________ am satisfied with the repairs to my vehicle and will no longer seek any damages from "me".
Eventually I go and all of a sudden the guy just guns it at the front of my car (not the MINI yet). I pull back straight, he does nothing to avoid me and slams right into me.
Legally I'm at fault because he had the right of way and now to avoid losing my license because I'm a new driver I have to pay everything out of pocket...including fixing his POS truck which looked like it had hit something well before it hit me (rust spots where paint has scraped off kinda gave it away)
The one I'm driving now is actually my dad's and has a totally destroyed headlight assembly and header panel, his truck had a small amount of damage to the bumper and fender, which had made the directional light tilt slightly forward which is why he wants it fixed...he doesn't want water to get in there. Water is gonna get in there anyway and it looks like it'll match the rest of his truck.
Anyway, my question is now after I spend the $1000 (Which is a lot of money to someone just graduating from HS) fixing both cars because mine is actually my dad's which I have until I get the MINI, what should I do to cover my ***? The last thing I need is the guy asking me to re-fix his truck or telling me that he dropped his arthritis medication during the accident and wants it replaced. She I just make up something in writing saying like "I ________ am satisfied with the repairs to my vehicle and will no longer seek any damages from "me".
Either he's an idiot
or he set you up for some liability. Something that says your released from further liability is a good idea. Google some legal sites to see if they have a template.
I'm not a lawyer, you may want to talk to one. Last thing you want is the guy claiming some soft tissue damage later.
Bummer....
Matt
I'm not a lawyer, you may want to talk to one. Last thing you want is the guy claiming some soft tissue damage later.
Bummer....
Matt
Before you pay all that money out of pocket to fix his car, consider this:
At any time in the next few weeks, he could decide that he's injured. He can call his/your insurance company and say he's injured. They'll have to handle his injury claim and boom, you have an at-fault accident on your record anyway.
Now... likely he won't do this. But before you pay all the money out of your pocket, just consider you may end up with the accident reported anyway.
Sorry about your accident, hope it all works out okay.
At any time in the next few weeks, he could decide that he's injured. He can call his/your insurance company and say he's injured. They'll have to handle his injury claim and boom, you have an at-fault accident on your record anyway.
Now... likely he won't do this. But before you pay all the money out of your pocket, just consider you may end up with the accident reported anyway.
Sorry about your accident, hope it all works out okay.
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or he set you up for some liability. Something that says your released from further liability is a good idea. Google some legal sites to see if they have a template.
I'm not a lawyer, you may want to talk to one. Last thing you want is the guy claiming some soft tissue damage later.
Bummer....
Matt
I'm not a lawyer, you may want to talk to one. Last thing you want is the guy claiming some soft tissue damage later.
Bummer....
Matt
The guy was old and a little spacey...actually quite a bit spacey, but he doesn't seem like a dishonest guy and truthfully I think he didn't realize it was green, nailed it thinking nobody could be there, and didn't see me.
Key word there is "injury" emphasis on the " ". It doesn't take much to find a doctor that will say that kink in the neck is detrimental to normal function.
I hope that's true...
It was not hard enough to really cause him any harm and I offered him like 300 bucks just to let it be, because it works and he said he doesn't want any money...just wants his truck to work like it did before hand.
The guy was old and a little spacey...actually quite a bit spacey, but he doesn't seem like a dishonest guy and truthfully I think he didn't realize it was green, nailed it thinking nobody could be there, and didn't see me.
The guy was old and a little spacey...actually quite a bit spacey, but he doesn't seem like a dishonest guy and truthfully I think he didn't realize it was green, nailed it thinking nobody could be there, and didn't see me.
Hope for the best and fear for the worst....
Matt
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If what you fear is him claiming injury from the accident after you pay for his repairs you should indeed have him sign a document saying that a. the repairs have made the car like it was before the accident and b. he claims no injuries as a result of the accident. Also, if he hasn't sought medical attention by now for any claimed injury his case is pretty weak. Not zero but weaker than if he'd gone to a doctor or chiro or ER.
Are you sure you automatically lose your licence? Here in BC you don't lose your N if you're in an at-fault accident. If you were driving recklessly, then yes, or if you're caught DUI, then obviously you would, but this was just... an accident.
I'd recommend going through insurance if at all possible.
I'd recommend going through insurance if at all possible.
agreed, the other person can (some states) be held responsible or maybe even 50% if the accident was avoidable on his end.
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--I will pay what I must and not claim it in fear of my license being revoked
--I will learn from the experience and instead of what I did I will be sure to wait.
--I will take it as a lesson in what happens when I don't pay attention (if I were in his position I mean)
and finally:
--when I get too old to properly hear or understand the difference between a green light and a red one...and furthermore hit someone without an ounce of attempt to avoid them; I will revoke my own license.
.) I don't know how you got that idea in your head.
Right. The only way that happens is if you get in an accident and the officer who investigates give you a major moving violation in connection with the accident... say DUI, Reckless Driving, Vehicular Manslaughter, etc.
And hey, Robin... the "Last Clear Opportunity To Avoid" defense is available in most states but rarely used. In most claim scenarios, it's pretty much impossible to prove.
And let's not try to be Claims Adjusters here on NAM. In complex motor vehicle accident investigations, you might need recorded statements, testimonies under oath, scene investigations, police reports, independent eye witness statements, photos of the vehicles, the estimates, etc. You sure can't do it by a post on message board.
And hey, Robin... the "Last Clear Opportunity To Avoid" defense is available in most states but rarely used. In most claim scenarios, it's pretty much impossible to prove.
And let's not try to be Claims Adjusters here on NAM. In complex motor vehicle accident investigations, you might need recorded statements, testimonies under oath, scene investigations, police reports, independent eye witness statements, photos of the vehicles, the estimates, etc. You sure can't do it by a post on message board.
Before you pay all that money out of pocket to fix his car, consider this:
At any time in the next few weeks, he could decide that he's injured. He can call his/your insurance company and say he's injured. They'll have to handle his injury claim and boom, you have an at-fault accident on your record anyway.
Now... likely he won't do this. But before you pay all the money out of your pocket, just consider you may end up with the accident reported anyway.
Sorry about your accident, hope it all works out okay.
At any time in the next few weeks, he could decide that he's injured. He can call his/your insurance company and say he's injured. They'll have to handle his injury claim and boom, you have an at-fault accident on your record anyway.
Now... likely he won't do this. But before you pay all the money out of your pocket, just consider you may end up with the accident reported anyway.
Sorry about your accident, hope it all works out okay.
This is a very important thing to consider. This can & does happen.
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I would if I've had my license less than 6 months, I just don't want to take that chance...and yes that would be awesome. I swear its like old people week in my town and I can't get anywhere.
Really... your State has a regulation that says if you have an at-fault accident in the first six month after being licensed, they revoke your driver's license ? For how long ??
Wow... Sucks for the young people in your State but I have to say, I like that rule. Of course, I've said on this message board before, I don't agree with kids age 16 or 17 driving anyway.
Wow... Sucks for the young people in your State but I have to say, I like that rule. Of course, I've said on this message board before, I don't agree with kids age 16 or 17 driving anyway.
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Really... your State has a regulation that says if you have an at-fault accident in the first six month after being licensed, they revoke your driver's license ? For how long ??
Wow... Sucks for the young people in your State but I have to say, I like that rule. Of course, I've said on this message board before, I don't agree with kids age 16 or 17 driving anyway.
Wow... Sucks for the young people in your State but I have to say, I like that rule. Of course, I've said on this message board before, I don't agree with kids age 16 or 17 driving anyway.
I'm 18 too, I just didn't get my license because my father refused to sit in the room at the dmv while I took the test for my learner's permit, so I didn't get that until about a year ago. I think I'm an above average driver, but I think we all think that of ourselves. I'm definitely not a bad driver but I've had some moments where I would have acted much differently with a little experience under my belt...then again my dad is 56 and drives for a living yet doesn't use turn signals and drives 60 through 25mph turns in a minivan.
You're 18, you've been driving for under a year, AND you think that you are an ABOVE AVERAGE DRIVER.
THAT is your problem.
Until you realize the problems with that statement, you will be a problem for yourself and the people on the road around you.
Just think about it.
THAT is your problem.
Until you realize the problems with that statement, you will be a problem for yourself and the people on the road around you.
Just think about it.
It was not hard enough to really cause him any harm and I offered him like 300 bucks just to let it be, because it works and he said he doesn't want any money...just wants his truck to work like it did before hand.
The guy was old and a little spacey...actually quite a bit spacey, but he doesn't seem like a dishonest guy and truthfully I think he didn't realize it was green, nailed it thinking nobody could be there, and didn't see me.
The guy was old and a little spacey...actually quite a bit spacey, but he doesn't seem like a dishonest guy and truthfully I think he didn't realize it was green, nailed it thinking nobody could be there, and didn't see me.
Hope all works out for you.
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Well to be fair I tried to buy an $8,000 truck and was told I need something new and economical...so I picked a MINI so at least I could have some fun with it...what fun is a Scion :P
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Just think about the other people on the road. Above average driver doesn't mean I think I'm a good driver or a mature driver, because that would be ridiculous to think. I do, however, think I'm a little bit better of a driver than that guy that stops 15 feet before a light and holds up an entire turing lane of cars or that woman who looks up from her makeup, only to realize she's halfway into the next lane...at 3 o'clock in the afternoon.


