I admit it--I go through brakes (in particular) and clutches (to some degree) faster than I probably should. I've been driving manual since I got my driver's license 14 years ago, but never had a great teacher.

During my first stick lesson, my dad said, "Now take your foot off the clutch, and when it's the right time, start pressing the gas." Me: "How do I know when it's the right time?" Dad: "You just know." Ack! My dad is _wonderful_--probably shouldn't share this story--but it gives you some context for my relative cluelessness.

I don't really know how to downshift; spend more time in neutral than I should. Now that Logan--my MINI--is on his way, I want to treat him like he deserves. Anyone know of a good stick shift teacher in the Boston area who will be patient with an old dog who _really_ wants to learn new tricks, but is a bit embarrassed that she has to?

And should I wait to take the lesson until Logan is out of his break-in period, or do it as soon as possible? I imagine that while I'm learning, my shifting might be even worse for a short while while I try to learn new things and unlearn others...

I know, I know--should've done this while I still had Logan's predecessor!

EDIT: Just noticed that "Driving School" is in the racing forum. Moderators, feel free to move this if it should be somewhere else. I'm looking for help with day to day driving, not racing...

 

You should be commended for admitting that you could learn or improve your driving technique. Most of the guys will never admit this!

I can provide lots of written advice but nothing beats some practical lessons. If I can help at all you should feel free to message me privately and I will gladly reply. I have a long history in race, rally and professional driving instruction. My specialization is in identifying and correcting remedial driving issues for professional street drivers.

By the way clutches should not wear out hardly at all if they aren't defective and are used correctly. If your clutches do wear badly then that is usually an indicator of improper use. Good luck on your quest for an instructor.