is the blackout headlight trims come with the tiny part to cover the washer?

no.

I wrapped my washer covers in vinyl that pretty much perfectly matches the headlight ring. I ordered a sample from metrorestyling.com and it was enough to cover both headlight washers. The color you need is "Matte Anthracite Metallic 093"

thanks for advice

Plastidip is also now available in Anthracite Gray both Metalic and Non-Metalic finish.

or you could order these

http://www.mini-delta.com/b/products/detail5641.html



~$65

scott